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| 001 - CONTROL NUMBER |
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on1424629192 |
| 003 - CONTROL NUMBER IDENTIFIER |
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OCoLC |
| 005 - DATE AND TIME OF LATEST TRANSACTION |
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20240523131808.0 |
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240221s2024 nyua b 001 0 eng d |
| 010 ## - LIBRARY OF CONGRESS CONTROL NUMBER |
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| LC control number |
2023951961 |
| 040 ## - CATALOGING SOURCE |
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| Original cataloging agency |
TOH |
| Language of cataloging |
eng |
| Description conventions |
rda |
| Transcribing agency |
TOH |
| Modifying agency |
BDX |
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UOK |
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OCLCQ |
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OCLCO |
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UAP |
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NFG |
| 020 ## - INTERNATIONAL STANDARD BOOK NUMBER |
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| International Standard Book Number |
9780306833120 |
| 020 ## - INTERNATIONAL STANDARD BOOK NUMBER |
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| International Standard Book Number |
0306833123 |
| 035 ## - SYSTEM CONTROL NUMBER |
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| System control number |
(OCoLC)1424629192 |
| 092 ## - LOCALLY ASSIGNED DEWEY CALL NUMBER (OCLC) |
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| Classification number |
155.232 |
| Item number |
V753 |
| 049 ## - LOCAL HOLDINGS (OCLC) |
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| Holding library |
NFGA |
| 100 1# - MAIN ENTRY--PERSONAL NAME |
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| Personal name |
Villiers, Helen, |
| Relator term |
author. |
| 245 10 - TITLE STATEMENT |
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| Title |
You're not the problem : |
| Remainder of title |
the impact of narcissism and emotional abuse--and how to heal / |
| Statement of responsibility, etc |
Helen Villiers, Katie McKenna. |
| 246 3# - VARYING FORM OF TITLE |
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| Title proper/short title |
You are not the problem |
| 250 ## - EDITION STATEMENT |
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| Edition statement |
First edition. |
| 264 #1 - PRODUCTION, PUBLICATION, DISTRIBUTION, MANUFACTURE STATEMENTS |
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| Place of production, publication, distribution, manufacture |
New York : |
| Name of producer, publisher, distributor, manufacturer |
Hachette Go, an imprint of Hachette Books, |
| Date of production, publication, distribution, manufacture |
2024. |
| 300 ## - PHYSICAL DESCRIPTION |
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| Extent |
341 pages : |
| Other physical details |
illustrations ; |
| Dimensions |
23 cm |
| 336 ## - CONTENT TYPE |
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| Content Type Term |
text |
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txt |
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rdacontent |
| 337 ## - MEDIA TYPE |
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unmediated |
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n |
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rdamedia |
| 338 ## - CARRIER TYPE |
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volume |
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nc |
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rdacarrier |
| 504 ## - BIBLIOGRAPHY, ETC. NOTE |
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| Bibliography, etc |
Includes bibliographical references and index. |
| 505 0# - FORMATTED CONTENTS NOTE |
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| Formatted contents note |
Introduction -- Is your parent a narcissist -- The five main traits of narcissism -- What made them a narcissist? -- How they f*ck you up... -- Childhood coping mechanisms: how narcissistic parenting f*cked up your relationships -- Parentification -- The roles in a narcissistic family system -- The narcissist's cycle of abuse -- Is it me? Am I the drama? -- Who am I? -- The gray rock method -- F*ck forgiveness -- Boundaries -- Killing the critical voice -- Killing the hope -- Dear reader... -- Further reading -- References -- Acknowledgments -- About the authors -- Index. |
| 520 ## - SUMMARY, ETC. |
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| Summary, etc |
"Many emotionally abusive behaviors from parent to child have become socially acceptable because of the way we repeat things our parents said and did, things passed down from generation to generation that persist today. You're Not the Problem enables us to recognize these behaviors and realize the profound impact they have had, and still have, and to see the patterns they form in our relationships with parents, partners and friends. It also shows us how to heal on a personal level but also on a societal level. The legacy and the damage caused by narcissistic and emotional abuse will carry on, perpetuated by trauma and repeating cycles, unless we learn to recognize and understand it, unless we as individuals and as a society learn how to challenge it and stop its vicious cycle of destruction--which is what this book sets out to do. This book will explain and illustrate: How to recognize emotional abuse in family relationships: its language and behaviors The immediate and long term impact of these behaviors Strategies for healing How to avoid repeating these behaviors Using client narratives and sample scripts, Villiers and McKenna offer a compassionate, sympathetic approach to looking at our familial patterns--and how we can break free from these toxic relationships and reclaim our lives."--Amazon.com |
| 650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM |
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| Topical term or geographic name as entry element |
Narcissism. |
| 9 (RLIN) |
119284 |
| 650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM |
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| Topical term or geographic name as entry element |
Manipulative behavior. |
| 9 (RLIN) |
114884 |
| 650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM |
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| Topical term or geographic name as entry element |
Psychological abuse. |
| 9 (RLIN) |
98995 |
| 650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM |
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| Topical term or geographic name as entry element |
Interpersonal relations. |
| 700 1# - ADDED ENTRY--PERSONAL NAME |
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| Personal name |
McKenna, Katie |
| Titles and other words associated with a name |
(Psychotherapist), |
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author. |
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C0 |
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NFG |
