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Good boundaries and goodbyes : loving others without losing the best of who you are / Lysa TerKeurst.

By: Material type: TextTextPublisher: Nashville : Thomas Nelson, [2022]Description: xxii, 242 pages ; 22 cmContent type:
  • text
Media type:
  • unmediated
Carrier type:
  • volume
ISBN:
  • 9781400211760
  • 140021176X
Other title:
  • Good boundaries and good byes
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Contents:
Introduction: we can't set good boundaries without love -- Chapter 1: You are not crazy (you can love them, but you can't change them) -- Chapter 2: Naming the tension that we've all been wrestling with -- Chapter 3: It's not about the problems, it's about what the problems represent -- Chapter 4: God takes boundary violations very seriously and so should we -- Chapter 5: You are already doing this really well -- Chapter 6: They may never see your boundaries as a good thing -- Chapter 7: Just because they say it doesn't mean you have to own it -- Chapter 8: Trying to make someone else happy shouldn't be your definition of healthy -- Chapter 9: What am I so afraid of? -- Chapter 10: Can a goodbye ever really be good? -- Chapter 11: I'm not walking away, I'm accepting reality -- Conclusion: a Bible, a ring, and a God who never leaves us -- Wisdom to turn to when our boundaries are called into question -- Getting the help you need -- Some important notes to consider on abuse.
Summary: "Number-one New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst helps readers stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships by showing them biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye--without losing the best of who they are"-- Provided by publisher
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Enhanced descriptions from Syndetics:

Relationships are wonderful . . . until they're not.

Stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships and learn biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye.

Is it unloving or selfish to set a boundary with family members or friends? Are Christians ever called to walk away from a relationship that's no longer safe or sustainable? #1 New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst deeply understands these hard questions in the midst of relational struggles.

After thousands of hours of counseling intensives and extensive theological research that transformed the way she defined healthy relationships, Lysa is now more committed than ever to loving people well without losing the best of who she is.

In these pages, Lysa will help you:

Understand the five factors to remember when implementing healthy boundaries. Determine the appropriate amount of personal and emotional access someone has to you. Stop being misled and emotionally paralyzed by wrongly interpreted or weaponized Bible verses that perpetuate unhealthy relationships. Be equipped with effective boundary-setting tools, such as realistic scripts and practical strategies for healthier communication. Be empowered to say goodbye without guilt when a relationship has shifted from difficult to destructive. Receive therapeutic wisdom you can trust directly from Lysa's Christian counselor Jim Cress, who weighs in throughout the book.

You'll be relieved to learn that boundaries aren't just a good idea, they're a God idea.

Look for additional biblically based resources and devotionals from Lysa:

Forgiving What You Can't Forget It's Not Supposed to Be This Way Uninvited You're Going to Make It Embraced Seeing Beautiful Again

Includes bibliographical references.

Introduction: we can't set good boundaries without love -- Chapter 1: You are not crazy (you can love them, but you can't change them) -- Chapter 2: Naming the tension that we've all been wrestling with -- Chapter 3: It's not about the problems, it's about what the problems represent -- Chapter 4: God takes boundary violations very seriously and so should we -- Chapter 5: You are already doing this really well -- Chapter 6: They may never see your boundaries as a good thing -- Chapter 7: Just because they say it doesn't mean you have to own it -- Chapter 8: Trying to make someone else happy shouldn't be your definition of healthy -- Chapter 9: What am I so afraid of? -- Chapter 10: Can a goodbye ever really be good? -- Chapter 11: I'm not walking away, I'm accepting reality -- Conclusion: a Bible, a ring, and a God who never leaves us -- Wisdom to turn to when our boundaries are called into question -- Getting the help you need -- Some important notes to consider on abuse.

"Number-one New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst helps readers stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships by showing them biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye--without losing the best of who they are"-- Provided by publisher

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