TY - BOOK AU - Krasnow,Iris TI - The secret lives of wives: women share what it really takes to stay married SN - 1592406807 PY - 2011/// CY - New York PB - Gotham Books KW - Marriage KW - Married people KW - Psychology KW - Wives N1 - Includes bibliographical references; Who needs marriage? -- Then and now -- Separate summers -- Through sickness and loathing and death -- Resurrecting childhood passions -- Why love lasts -- Naughty girls -- The man next door -- Believe-it-or-not marriages -- Lessons from the golden girls N2 - Draws on interviews with dozens of women who have remained married in spite of high divorce rates, revealing the agreements they share with their partners to keep their marriages strong and describing how they each maintain an independent identity ER -