TY - BOOK AU - Lapointe,Vanessa TI - Discipline without damage: how to get your kids to behave without messing them up SN - 1928055109 PY - 2016///] CY - British Colombia PB - Lifetree Media KW - Discipline of children KW - Child rearing KW - Parenting N1 - Includes bibliographical references (pages 210-213) and index; Introduction -- Connection makes the world go 'round & grows brains. What discipline is & is not ; The science & heart of correction ; Inside the discipline vortex ; Hulking it up ; The letter no child should ever have to write -- Connection in action. Making it real ; Discipline without damage takes mindful responding ; Discipline without damage takes mindful prevention ; Mindful support for exceptional kids -- Conclusion N2 - "In this easy-to-read, science-based book, parents, caregivers, and adults of all kinds discover how discipline affects children's development, why intervention should reinforce connection not separation, and why the disciplinary strategies that may have been used on us as children are not the ones that children really need. As a practicing child and family psychologist and advisor to the British Columbia ministry of children and families, Dr. Vanessa has seen it all, and she has navigated hundreds of tough situations with families. Drawing on scientific research and a wealth of clinical experience, she shows you how to put out the fire without dampening your child's spirits; how to correct their behavior while emphasizing connection; and how to discipline without damage, "--Amazon.com ER -