TY - BOOK AU - Stahl,Stefanie AU - Lauffer,Elisabeth TI - The child in you: the breakthrough method for bringing out your authentic self SN - 9780143135937 PY - 2020///] CY - New York PB - Penguin Books KW - Inner child KW - Adulthood KW - Psychological aspects KW - Handbooks, manuals, etc KW - Interpersonal relations KW - Interpersonal conflict KW - Handbooks and manuals KW - lcgft KW - Self-help publications N1 - Originally published in German by Kailish Verlag, ©2015; Includes bibliographical references (pages 321-322) and index N2 - "We all want to be loved, and to feel safe to express who we really are. But over time we grow estranged from what brings us our purest happiness--because everyday traumas, unyielding societal expectations, and the judgment of our parents and peers submerge our true self beneath layers of behaviors rooted in fear and shame and mistrust. In The Child in You, psychologist Stefanie Stahl guides you, step by step, through her therapeutic method that has helped millions to peel away these layers and reconnect with their inner child--both the shadow child, representing our deepest insecurities and the part of our self-esteem that is injured and unstable, and the sun child, representing our greatest joys and the part of our self-esteem that remains positive and intact. The many examples and exercises in this book will help you discover your shadow child and sun child, identify which of the shadow child's dozen self-protection strategies are at work in you, and put into practice the array of proven self-reflection strategies to overcome negative influences and beliefs. Because it's never too late to have a happy childhood, or to bring your authentic self out from the shadows so you can embody your radiant individuality"-- ER -