TY - BOOK AU - Asgarian,Roxanna TI - We were once a family: a story of love, death, and child removal in America SN - 9780374602291 PY - 2023/// CY - New York PB - Farrar, Straus and Giroux KW - Murder-suicide KW - United States KW - Children KW - Crimes against KW - Institutional care KW - Adopted children KW - African American children KW - Interracial adoption KW - Foster children KW - Care KW - Foster home care KW - True crime stories KW - lcgft N1 - Includes bibliographical references (pages 283-294); Preface -- Prologue -- "Every time I see you, you take me away" -- A safe place -- The good ol' boys club -- Big-time small-time living -- Across state lines -- "If not us, who?" -- Playing the food card -- "Is it because I'm bad?" -- Dichotomy -- "Kiss your mama" -- "The last little hope I had" -- "Why didn't they call me?" -- "Something I could love unconditionally" -- "Death at the hands of another" -- Best interests of the child -- A final resting place -- Epilogue N2 - "The shocking, deeply reported story of a murder-suicide that claimed the lives of six children--and a searing indictment of the American foster care system"--; On March 26, 2018, rescue workers discovered a crumpled SUV and the bodies of two women and several children at the bottom of a cliff beside the Pacific Coast Highway. Investigators soon concluded that the crash was a murder-suicide, but there was more to the story: Jennifer and Sarah Hart, it turned out, were a white married couple who had adopted the six Black children from two different Texas families in 2006 and 2008. Behind the family's loving facade, however, was a pattern of abuse and neglect that went ignored as the couple withdrew the children from school and moved across the country. It soon became apparent that the State of Texas knew very little about the two individuals to whom it had given custody of six children. As a journalist in Houston, Asgarian became the first reporter to put the children's birth families at the center of the story. We follow the author as she runs up against the intransigence of a state agency that removes tens of thousands of kids from homes each year in the name of child welfare, while often failing to consider alternatives. Her reporting uncovers persistent racial biases and corruption as children of color are separated from birth parents without proper cause. The result is a riveting narrative and a deeply reported indictment of a system that continues to fail America's most vulnerable children while upending the lives of their families ER -