TY - BOOK AU - Kreisman,Jerold J. AU - Straus,Hal TI - I hate you--don't leave me: understanding the borderline personality SN - 9780593418499 PY - 2021///] CY - New York PB - TarcherPerigee, an imrprint of Penguin Random House LLC KW - Borderline personality disorder N1 - "Originally published by HPBooks in 1989."; "A TarcherPerigee book."; Includes bibliographical references (pages [283]-306) and index; Preface -- Note to reader -- 1. The world of the borderline -- 2. Chaos and emptiness -- 3. Roots of the borderline syndrome -- 4. The borderline society -- 5. The SET-UP system of communication -- 6. Family and friends: how to cope -- 7. Seeking, finding, and engaging in therapy -- 8. Specific psychotherapeutic approaches -- 9. Medications: the science and the promise -- 10. Understanding and healing -- Appendix A: Alternative models for diagnosing BPD -- Appendix B: Evolution of the borderline syndrome N2 - "A revised and updated third edition of the bestselling guide to understanding borderline personality disorder"-- ER -