TY - BOOK AU - Lumanlan,Jen TI - Parenting beyond power: how to use connection & collaboration to transform your family--and the world SN - 9781632174482 PY - 2023///] CY - Seattle PB - Sasquatch Books KW - Parenting KW - Minority families KW - Children of minorities N1 - Includes bibliographical references (pages 212-232) and index; Introduction: Letting go of what you know -- Societal forces shape our family life -- Judgments, rewards, and punishments -- Emotions and regulation -- Children's resistance -- Meeting parents' needs -- Problem-solving conversations -- Common difficulties with problem-solving conversations -- Leveling up N2 - "Research-based parenting educator Jen Lumanlan provides a simple yet revolutionary framework for rethinking our relationship with our children and getting everyone's needs met in the process. She provides an alternative, not just to spanking and verbal abuse, but to Time Outs, countdowns, and emotional manipulation"-- ER -