TY - BOOK AU - Lippincott,Jenifer Marshall AU - Deutsch,Robin M. TI - 7 Things your teenager won't tell you: and how to talk to them anyway SN - 0812969596 (pbk.) PY - 2005/// CY - New York PB - Ballantine Books KW - Adolescent psychology KW - Parent and teenager KW - United States KW - Parental influences KW - Parenting KW - Teenagers N1 - "A Ballantine Books trade paperback original"--T.p. verso; Includes bibliographical references (p. [225]); pt. 1. Our jobs redefined. The rules of play -- pt. 2. The seven things. Their brains are to blame. Truth is as malleable as their Friday night plans. Controlling them is not the point. The adolescent mirror distorts. Friends don't matter as much as we may think. When we say no, they hear maybe. Taking risks gives them power ER -