TY  - BOOK
AU  - Byock,Ira
TI  - The four things that matter most: a book about living 
SN  - 0743249097
PY  - 2004///
CY  - New York
PB  - Free Press
KW  - Conduct of life
KW  - Interpersonal communication
KW  - Interpersonal relations
KW  - Communication
KW  - Emotions
KW  - Love
N1  - Includes index; Saying the four things -- The Healing power of words -- Completing relationships -- Transformations -- Loved ones live on inside us -- Resolving a legacy of pain -- The Emotional economics of forgiveness -- Extreme acts of forgiveness -- Forgiving yourself -- Living with uncertainty and illness -- Practicing gratitude -- The Unexpected grace of reconnection -- The Family dynamics of gratitude -- Creative ways of saying the four things -- Loving the body -- Living every day as if it were your first-or last -- Lives intertwined with love -- Nothing left unsaid -- The Mysterious magic of some good-byes -- Good-byes that are gifts through time -- Good-byes that celebrate life -- Afterword: Reflections before good-bye
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