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Boundary power : how I treat you, how I let you treat me, how I treat myself / Mike S. O'Neil, Charles E. Newbold, Jr.

By: Contributor(s): Material type: TextTextPublication details: Nashville, Tenn. : Sonlight Pub., ©1994.Description: vii, 181 pages : illustrations ; 28 cmContent type:
  • text
Media type:
  • unmediated
Carrier type:
  • volume
ISBN:
  • 0963345427
  • 9780963345424
Subject(s):
Contents:
Introduction: Intimacy in Relationships -- What are Boundaries? -- Why Boundaries? -- Characteristics of Persons with Healthy Boundaries -- Where We Learn Boundaries -- Developmental Stages -- Mary Beth's Story -- The Family System -- Growing Up in a Functional Family -- Growing Up in a Dysfunctional Family -- Dysfunctional Family Roles -- Dysfunctional Family Rules -- Consequences of Growing Up in a Dysfunctional Family -- Mike's Story -- Relational Boundaries -- Boundary Violations Against God -- Boundary Violations Against Self -- Boundary Violations Against Others -- Authorities, Subordinates, and Peers -- Roles in Relationships -- Spiritual Boundaries -- The Spiritual Impact of All Abuse -- Kinds of Authorities -- The God Factor -- Abusive Religious Systems -- Abusive Religious Practices -- Physical Boundaries -- Physical Body Space -- Invisible, Psychological Space -- Characteristics of the Abused Child -- Are You an Abusive Person? -- Sexual Boundaries -- Kinds of Sexual Violations -- Aftereffects -- Are You a Sexaholic? -- Test Yourself -- Emotional Boundaries -- Emotional Health and Boundaries -- Strong Emotional Boundaries -- Weak Emotional Boundaries -- The Avoidance of Pain -- Feelings -- Thoughts and Feelings -- How We Violate Emotional Boundaries -- Being Responsible -- Models of Unhealthy Boundaries -- Functional and Relational Boundaries -- Boundaries That Are Too Close -- Boundaries That Are Too Distant -- Boundaries That Are Too Close and Too Distant -- Boundaries That Are Too Rigid.
Holdings
Item type Home library Collection Call number Materials specified Status Date due Barcode Item holds
Adult Book Adult Book Dr. James Carlson Library NonFiction 158.2 O58 Available 33111008110377
Total holds: 0

Enhanced descriptions from Syndetics:

How I treat you, how I let you treat me, and how I treat myself. You can open a whole new way of successfully dealing with life's challenges by answering the questions and acting on the information that you learn in each chapter of Boundary Power. You can take charge of your life, strengthen your character, expand your freedom, improve your marriage, and other personal relationships by learning by how to set personal boundaries in your life. The book includes: - clear definition of all boundaries as they relate to you relationally, spiritually, physically, sexually and emotionally - where you learn boundaries, the different kinds of boundaries, and the types of people with boundary problems - key questions to help you discover your own boundary problems - exercises that will help you resolve loses associated with abuses - exercises that will help you set clear healthy boundaries in all your relationships

"A power life resource."

Includes bibliographical references.

Introduction: Intimacy in Relationships -- What are Boundaries? -- Why Boundaries? -- Characteristics of Persons with Healthy Boundaries -- Where We Learn Boundaries -- Developmental Stages -- Mary Beth's Story -- The Family System -- Growing Up in a Functional Family -- Growing Up in a Dysfunctional Family -- Dysfunctional Family Roles -- Dysfunctional Family Rules -- Consequences of Growing Up in a Dysfunctional Family -- Mike's Story -- Relational Boundaries -- Boundary Violations Against God -- Boundary Violations Against Self -- Boundary Violations Against Others -- Authorities, Subordinates, and Peers -- Roles in Relationships -- Spiritual Boundaries -- The Spiritual Impact of All Abuse -- Kinds of Authorities -- The God Factor -- Abusive Religious Systems -- Abusive Religious Practices -- Physical Boundaries -- Physical Body Space -- Invisible, Psychological Space -- Characteristics of the Abused Child -- Are You an Abusive Person? -- Sexual Boundaries -- Kinds of Sexual Violations -- Aftereffects -- Are You a Sexaholic? -- Test Yourself -- Emotional Boundaries -- Emotional Health and Boundaries -- Strong Emotional Boundaries -- Weak Emotional Boundaries -- The Avoidance of Pain -- Feelings -- Thoughts and Feelings -- How We Violate Emotional Boundaries -- Being Responsible -- Models of Unhealthy Boundaries -- Functional and Relational Boundaries -- Boundaries That Are Too Close -- Boundaries That Are Too Distant -- Boundaries That Are Too Close and Too Distant -- Boundaries That Are Too Rigid.

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