The normal bar : the surprising secrets of happy couples and what they reveal about creating a new normal in your relationship / by Chrisanna Northrup, Pepper Schwartz, PhD, James Witte, PhD

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Based on data obtained from nearly 100,000 respondents, here is the ultimate resource for anyone who wants to learn the relationship-tested ways couples can achieve satisfaction and contentment in areas such as communication, sex, affection, and financial cooperation.What constitutes and"normaland" behavior among happy couples'and  What steps you should take if that and"normaland" is one you want to strive for'and  To help answer those questions, wellness entrepreneur Chrisanna Northrup teamed with two of Americaand's top sociologists, Yale Ph.D.and  Pepper Schwartz and Harvard Ph.D. James Witte, to design a unique interactive survey that would draw feedback from around the world.and  What has resulted is the clearest picture yet of how well couples are communicating, romancing each other, satisfying each other in the bedroom, sharing financial responsibilities, and staying faithful and-- or not.and  Since the Normal Bar survey methodology sorts for age and gender, racial and geographic differences and sexual preferences, the authors are able to reveal , for example, what happens to passion as we grow older, which gender wants what when it comes to sex, the factors that spur marital combat, how kids figure in, how being gay or bisexual turns out to be both different and the same, and and--regardless of background -- the tiny habits that drive partners absolutely batty.The book is dense with revelations, from the unexpected popularity of certain sexual positions, to the average number of times happy and-- and unhappy -- couples kiss, to the prevalence of lying, to the surprising loyalty most men and women feel for their partner (even when in a deteriorating relationship), to the vivid and idiosyncratic ways individuals of different ages, genders and nationalities describe their and"ideal romantic evening.and"Much more than a peek behind the relationship curtain, The Normal Bar offers readers an array of prescriptive tools that will help them establish a and"new normal.and" Mindful of what keeps couples stuck in ruts, the bookand's authors suggest practical and life-changing ways to break cycles of disappointment and frustration.