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008			130816s2014 nyu b 000 0 eng
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019			_a849719021 _a866892935 _a870986991
020			_a0399162879 (pbk.)
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035			_a(OCoLC)850209686 _z(OCoLC)849719021 _z(OCoLC)866892935 _z(OCoLC)870986991
040			_aDLC _beng _erda _cDLC _dIG# _dBTCTA _dBDX _dOCLCO _dOCLCF _dHHO _dUOK _dABG _dYDXCP _dCGP _dCDX _dNFG
042			_apcc
049			_aNFGA
092			_a302 _bE19
100	1		_aEckel, Sara. _9246829
245	1	0	_aIt's not you : _b27 (wrong) reasons you're single / _cSara Eckel.
250			_aFirst edition.
264		1	_aNew York, New York : _bA Perigee Book, _c2014.
300			_axix, 184 pages ; _c19 cm
336			_atext _2rdacontent
337			_aunmediated _2rdamedia
338			_avolume _2rdacarrier
500			_a"A Perigee book."
504			_aIncludes bibliographical references (pages 177-182).
505	0		_aWhat's wrong with you? -- You have issues -- You have low self-esteem -- You're too negative -- You're too liberated -- You're too intimidating -- You're too desperate -- You need to be happy alone -- You're too picky -- You're too available -- You don't know how to play the game -- You need to grow up -- You're too selfish -- You need to put it out to the universe! -- You need an action plan! -- You're too fabulous to settle down -- You're too sad -- You are the constant -- You have to keep trying! -- You're stick -- You should have married that guy -- You don't really want a relationship -- You need practice -- You're too old -- You don't know love -- You suck -- You need to figure out "why" -- You'll spend the rest of your life alone! -- You are here.
520			_a"If you're single and searching, there's no end to other people's explanations, excuses, and criticism explaining why you haven't found a partner: "You're too picky. Just find a good-enough guy and you'll be fine." "You're too desperate. If men think you need them, they'll run scared." "You're too independent. Smart, ambitious women always have a harder time finding mates." "You have low self-esteem. You can't love someone else until you've learned to love yourself." "You're too needy. You can't be happy in a relationship until you've learned to be happy on your own." Based on her popular Modern Love column, Sara Eckel's It's Not You challenges these myths, encouraging singletons to stop picking apart their personalities and to start tapping into their own wisdom about who and what is right for them. Supported by the latest psychological and sociological research, as well as interviews with people who have experienced longtime singledom, Eckel creates a strong and empowering argument to understand and accept that there's no one reason why you're single--you just are"-- _cProvided by publisher.
650		0	_aInterpersonal relations. _933419
650		0	_aMan-woman relationships. _93727
650		0	_aSingle people. _9152071
650		0	_aSingle women. _9150006
942			_cBOOK _08
994			_aC0 _bNFG
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