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100 1 _aShapiro, Ronald M.
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245 1 0 _aBullies, tyrants, and impossible people :
_bhow to beat them without joining them /
_cRonald M. Shapiro & Mark A. Jankowski with James Dale.
250 _a1st ed.
260 _aNew York :
_bCrown Business,
_cc2005.
300 _ax, 276 p. ;
_c21 cm.
500 _aIncludes index.
505 0 _aThe system for battling bullies, tyrants and impossible people -- N.I.C.E. : how to beat them without joining them -- The civil rights lawyer who lost his cool and his case : if you don't rule your emotions, they will rule you -- First lock all your vendors in a small room : know who you're dealing with or you'll never know how to deal with them -- "We don't make change" : what you don't control often runs amok -- We'll get you fired : ultimatums without options lead to impasses -- N, neutralize your emotions : learn to act rather than react -- The securities commissioner : flight, fight or focus -- He called me the scum of the earth : change your physiology and you change your psychology -- I, identify types : know what kind of "difficult" you're up against -- Close encounters of the police kind : dealing with the situationally difficult -- The photo shop clerk : dealing with the strategically difficult -- The boss from hell : dealing with the simply difficult -- C, controlling the encounter : shape the outcome -- First class treatment gets a first class upgrade to the hall of fame : controlling the encounter with the situationally difficult -- Little big man : controlling the encounter with the strategically difficult -- Free agents always go for the money : controlling the encounter with the simply difficult -- E, exploring options : getting "unstuck" -- Hey, dad, I have an idea for my punishment : how to turn dead ends into detours -- The largest contract for a TV news anchor : why and how options work -- The option to play ball : how to engage the other side in exploring options -- I said, he said : ending without escalating.
650 0 _aInterpersonal conflict.
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700 1 _aDale, Jim,
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700 1 _aJankowski, Mark A.
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