MARC details
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02889cam a22003858i 4500 |
| 001 - CONTROL NUMBER |
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on1246673027 |
| 003 - CONTROL NUMBER IDENTIFIER |
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OCoLC |
| 005 - DATE AND TIME OF LATEST TRANSACTION |
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20220106122715.0 |
| 008 - FIXED-LENGTH DATA ELEMENTS--GENERAL INFORMATION |
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210419s2021 cou 000 0 eng |
| 010 ## - LIBRARY OF CONGRESS CONTROL NUMBER |
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| LC control number |
2021011967 |
| 040 ## - CATALOGING SOURCE |
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| Original cataloging agency |
DLC |
| Language of cataloging |
eng |
| Description conventions |
rda |
| Transcribing agency |
DLC |
| Modifying agency |
OCLCO |
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OCLCF |
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GO4 |
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CLE |
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YEQ |
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NFG |
| 020 ## - INTERNATIONAL STANDARD BOOK NUMBER |
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| International Standard Book Number |
9781611809541 |
| Qualifying information |
(trade paperback) |
| 020 ## - INTERNATIONAL STANDARD BOOK NUMBER |
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| International Standard Book Number |
1611809541 |
| 035 ## - SYSTEM CONTROL NUMBER |
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| System control number |
(OCoLC)1246673027 |
| 042 ## - AUTHENTICATION CODE |
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| Authentication code |
pcc |
| 092 ## - LOCALLY ASSIGNED DEWEY CALL NUMBER (OCLC) |
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| Classification number |
152.41 |
| Item number |
R533 |
| 049 ## - LOCAL HOLDINGS (OCLC) |
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| Holding library |
NFGA |
| 100 1# - MAIN ENTRY--PERSONAL NAME |
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| Personal name |
Richo, David, |
| Dates associated with a name |
1940- |
| Relator term |
author. |
| 9 (RLIN) |
114706 |
| 245 10 - TITLE STATEMENT |
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| Title |
How to be an adult in relationships : |
| Remainder of title |
the five keys to mindful loving / |
| Statement of responsibility, etc |
David Richo ; foreword by Kathlyn Hendricks. |
| 250 ## - EDITION STATEMENT |
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| Edition statement |
20th anniversary edition ; Second edition. |
| 264 #1 - PRODUCTION, PUBLICATION, DISTRIBUTION, MANUFACTURE STATEMENTS |
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| Place of production, publication, distribution, manufacture |
Boulder, Colorado : |
| Name of producer, publisher, distributor, manufacturer |
Shambhala, |
| Date of production, publication, distribution, manufacture |
2021. |
| 300 ## - PHYSICAL DESCRIPTION |
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| Extent |
xv, 293 pages ; |
| Dimensions |
22 cm |
| 336 ## - CONTENT TYPE |
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| Content Type Term |
text |
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txt |
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rdacontent |
| 337 ## - MEDIA TYPE |
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unmediated |
| Media Type Code |
n |
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rdamedia |
| 338 ## - CARRIER TYPE |
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| Carrier Type Term |
volume |
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nc |
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rdacarrier |
| 500 ## - GENERAL NOTE |
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| General note |
"This second edition has been updated throughout, including the addition of a new preface" -- Title page verso. |
| 520 ## - SUMMARY, ETC. |
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| Summary, etc |
""Most people think of love as a feeling," says David Richo, "but love is not so much a feeling as a way of being present." Drawing on the Buddhist concept of mindfulness, Richo offers a fresh perspective on love and relationships that focuses not on finding an ideal mate but on becoming a more loving and realistic person. Here, he explores five hallmarks of mindful loving and how they play a key role in our relationships throughout life: Attention to the present moment; observing, listening, and noticing all the feelings at play in our relationships Acceptance of ourselves and others just as we are Appreciation of all our gifts, our limits, our longings, and our poignant human predicament Affection shown through holding and touching in respectful ways Allowing life and love to be just as they are, with all their ecstasy and ache, without trying to take control When deeply understood and applied, these five simple concepts-what Richo calls the five A's-form the basis of mature love. They help us to move away from judgment, fear, and blame to a position of openness, compassion, and realism about life and relationships. By giving and receiving these five A's, relationships become deeper and more meaningful, and they become a ground for personal transformation"-- |
| Assigning source |
Provided by publisher. |
| 505 0# - FORMATTED CONTENTS NOTE |
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| Formatted contents note |
How it all began -- Love and less -- Finding a partner -- High romance -- When conflicts arise -- Fears rush in -- and dangers, too -- Letting go of ego -- Our commitment and how it deepens -- When relationships end. |
| 650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM |
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| Topical term or geographic name as entry element |
Love. |
| 9 (RLIN) |
29498 |
| 650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM |
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| Topical term or geographic name as entry element |
Interpersonal relations. |
| 650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM |
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| Topical term or geographic name as entry element |
Love |
| General subdivision |
Religious aspects |
| -- |
Buddhism. |
| 9 (RLIN) |
195429 |
| 650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM |
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| Topical term or geographic name as entry element |
Interpersonal relations |
| General subdivision |
Religious aspects |
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Buddhism. |
| 9 (RLIN) |
256366 |
| 700 1# - ADDED ENTRY--PERSONAL NAME |
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| Personal name |
Hendricks, Kathlyn, |
| Relator term |
writer of foreword. |
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C0 |
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NFG |
